More of my club mates than I can count ran a sub 3 in the 2024 London Marathon. That’s pretty awesome. I ran the London Marathon in 5:16. And that’s OK. In fact, that’s pretty awesome too.
It’s been five years since I last ran a marathon. Five years since I pushed my body and mind to the outer limits of hell. The hell I can’t seem to stay away from. Post covid I developed an accidental triathlon habit and it sucked up all my time and energy. Then I accidentally found myself with a London Marathon entry. Why do I never accidentally find myself on a first class flight to a water bungalow in the Maldives?
I won my London Marathon place in a competition. Unless you qualify with a super fast time it can be pretty impossible to get a place so I understand how freakishly unlucky delightfully lucky this is. The London Marathon is literally the greatest show on earth and I would probably do it every year if I could (despite what February me says, don’t listen to February me, she’s a liar).
So, post Christmas I found myself with a 16 week marathon plan and what felt like a massive task to get myself back to some kind of marathon fitness. It was a process. I made a plan, I pretty much stuck to the plan, I made good decisions, I made bad decisions, I had regular wobbles and doubts, I turned down nights out, I went on nights out I tried not to feel bad about and I genuinely didn’t think I would get to the start line on more than one occasion. But I got to the start line.
Bumped into Kirsty at the start line and was delighted to see a friendly face!
What went right:
- Consistency. I ‘only’ ran 3 times a week but I ran 3 times a week consistently.
- The long runs. Not necessarily in terms of execution, there were tantrums, it was hard and there was no ‘race pace’, but I did do all the long runs.
- Progress. Nothing gives you confidence like seeing progress. I felt stronger as the weeks went by, easy runs were actually easy and I got quicker.
- Cross training. I went spinning religously every week to supplement the running and it helped keep my fitness up with less impact on the body.
- Cold water therapy. Honestly, the best thing I’ve discovered in years and it could not be better for recovery. I’m totally addicted to Tooting Bec Lido!
Cold water – good for the mind, body and soul!
What went less right:
- Life. I have a busy job and friends I’d like not to lose. I went out, I did things and I drank things, doing life doesn’t always work alongside marathon training. That’s OK.
- Towpath PTSD. On one of my long runs I took myself along the towpath and it brought back memories of endless miles running up and down and up and down and blaahhhh. I genuinely hated every bloody second of it and I haven’t been back.
- A cough. A week before the big day I got one of the worst coughs I’ve ever had. I think I was in denial about how bad it was, but I couldn’t sleep and it hurt to breathe. I even started drinking honey soaked in raw onions to get rid of it… hey, don’t judge a desperate woman on the edge!
- The weather. You can’t control the weather but that doesn’t make getting regularly battered by wind and rain any easier.
So, that was done, and sixteen weeks later I was on the start line, absolutely freezing cold, but somewhat grateful it wasn’t looking like a baking hot day. There were more waves this year that I had previously known, and it was congested for quite a long time, but it was easy enough to get into a rhythm. I started too fast, obviously, but the first few miles are pretty much downhill so it’s not all my fault.
This was the fifth time I had run the London Marathon so everything felt comfortingly familiar and I was so bloody happy to be a part of it again. The crowds, the atmosphere, the course, they’re all second to none. It’s absolutely joyous and it makes all the struggles through training worth every second.
The Highs:
- Zoe. BEST MARATHON SUPPORTER EVER! Somehow she managed to find me three times and somewhere near the finish I saw her flying over the barrier yelling at me in her Chaser coloured coat. It both amused me no end and got me moving a bit quicker.
- Chaser cheer points. Honestly, made me so happy I would have cried if I could have afforded the hydration loss. You guys are the absolute best and I love you all.
- The woman spectating who took my hand, put her arm round me, looked me dead in the eye and said ‘you’re smashing it babes, well done!’ No idea what mile that was. Strangers are rather fabulous sometimes.
- High-fiving all the kids. If you’ve never done it, do it, the joy on their faces is heart warming.
- The friends who saw me and shouted at me even though I missed them, knowing you were there lifted my spirits.
- Fulham run club. What a crew! I could still hear them chanting ‘chaser, chaser, chaser’ long after I passed them at mile 23. Grateful a little friendly local rivalry turns into supportive solidarity on the big stage.
- The finishing straight – that view of the finishing line is just the BEST.
- The friends who scraped me off the finishing line – I appreciate you! ❤ They let me sit down, gave me prosecco, offered me snacks, offered to carry my bags and gently guided me to dinner and home. I didn’t smell good, I didn’t look good and I had no chat. They didn’t care.
Everyone loves Tower Bridge!
The Lows:
- The friends I missed; mile 7, mile 11, mile 12, mile 25. It’s hard when you’re looking forward to seeing people and you just can’t see them but I still knew they were there and they were rooting for me. Ashley said she burst into tears when she realised I had gone past and she had missed me but that might be her baby hormones more than my presence!
- Missing Anthony Joshua – he was at a Lucozade station and I didn’t know! What a travesty of a missed selfie opportunity. Might not get over it.
- The bit before Tower Bridge. Like, what is that, why is that bit so hard?
- I didn’t eat enough on the Saturday and I felt it. I winged it rather than carefully measuring everything. That was a stupid mistake and I should know better.
- The fact this may be the very last time I get to run London (unless I somehow manage to get a good for age again…but that seems unlikely on every level)
This was a definite low point…
I don’t think there is anything else more raw, more honest, or more humbling than the marathon. There are so many things that happen in life that can be described as ‘lucky’, or a ‘fluke’, or even just ‘right place, right time’, but you don’t get to a marathon finish line by being lucky. You have to put in the work, you have to respect the distance, and there are no short cuts. If you cheat the process the marathon will chew you up and spit you out, hard.
I finished the marathon in 5:16, almost bang on what I expected. If I’m honest, throughout training I didn’t think I was working as hard as I should have but, on reflection, I’d rate my total effort as a 7/10 and I’m OK with that. It was hard, but it certainly didn’t chew me up and spit me out, so I must have done something right. It was my first marathon in 5 years, my first/only in this decade of my life, and I managed to avoid injury. I can be proud of that. Plus, I beat Romesh Ranganathan so, y’know, that’s something innit.
The question isn’t whether or not running a marathon will break you, because that’s all but guaranteed. The question is how soon, and how hard it will break you. Physically, mentally, emotionally. When you’ve literally got nothing left to give, how do you keep giving? How much pain can you endure for how long? And why, why, why do we keep coming back for more?
Can anything else simultaneously make you feel so alive, yet so broken? Can anything else simultaneously make you swear never, ever again whilst planning your next one? I don’t know. But I’m never doing it again. And I’m in the ballot for 2025. Make it make sense.